How to untangle yourself from the heartbreak of your breakup in only 6 weeks, without waiting for an apology, pretending it was OK, or giving up your power.
So that you can go from feeling heartbroken and worried, to confident and thriving in your new life.
If you're game, I'd like to work with you over the next 6 weeks to get out of heartbreak and step into the future, free from the pain of the breakup, trusting yourself, and knowing exactly who you are, healed and whole.
Why does that matter?
Because you don't want to spend the rest of your life losing it every time one of your kids reminds you of their dad, or your Ex acts like you're being unreasonable, or you run into him with the new girlfriend. My goal is to give you the fastest path out of heartbreak and give you everything you need to make that happen...
To do that, we'll solve the...
3 biggest problems that stop people from having
freedom from the heartbreak of their divorce:
Feeling deceived and shamed, like you missed red flags and have been living a lie...
Stuck on a Grudge Loop feeling hurt, fantasizing about getting even, and waiting for an apology that may never come...
Wanting to find yourself again, and not sure who you are since the breakup.
First, and because I care, I gotta call it like it like I see it ...
You have to face the fact that you started doubting yourself when your relationship fell apart.
The biggest reason most folks start doubting themselves is that when "the real stuff" came out during the divorce, they were left feeling deceived by their Ex, second-guessing red flags, and worried that they should have listened to their gut.
And it totally makes sense that you haven't been trusting yourself. It's only natural after the shock of finding out you may have been living a lie for years.
You want your clean start, but you procrastinate and wobble because you don't trust anyone...including yourself.
If you want any chance to build your new life on your terms, we have to rediscover the reason you've been muting your intuition and find a new strategy to make decisions that feels safe and aligned.
Because the alternative is, even though the court said you were free to start your new life, you stay on hold because you're worried you'll miss another red flag or make the same mistakes. You forgot how to trust yourself (much less anyone else!)
To fix this...
We'll start by pinpointing when and why you silenced your gut and gave in to your Ex's agenda even when it didn't feel right... listen, it's not your fault, you were just trying to keep the peace because you thought that was what a "good wife" would do.... but never again! Because I'm going to share with you the secret to becoming "gaslight-proof".
Next, we show you how to finally let yourself off the hook for decisions you made in the past (especially decisions you made when you were just doing the best you could to take care of yourself.)
Then, we'll show you how to make better, faster decisions and stop second-guessing yourself by using our "No Regrets Decision Making Matrix" so your intuition emerges stronger and you'll never have to second guess yourself again.
Result: You build unshakeable self-trust so every decision you make will be one step closer to your new life. Heck, you might even feel that openness and wonder you had way back when you first took a chance on love and the life of your dreams.
The second big problem is getting stuck in a Grudge Loop that's keeping you angry, bitter, and defensive (even if you think you've done a great job hiding it from your family and friends).
How do you move on, especially when you don't want to waste your life as the bitter Ex... Every day, worrying that you're becoming the one everyone avoids because they're tired of hearing you tell the same ol' story about how your Ex did you dirty?
Whether your friends and family see you as the villain who ruined a good thing, or the victim who was left behind...
it feels nearly impossible to let go of what happened in the divorce. You start to notice how often you daydream about your Ex "getting what they deserve" (or maybe even fantasizing that they come crawling back so you can break up with THEM this time!)
And you know deep down that you're giving away your future to the Grudge Loop.
To fix this...
We'll start by taking an inventory of your heartbreak timeline. You think you know why you're still hurt and angry, but I will show you exactly how to get to the core hurt so you know exactly what past pain is alive in the present.
Next, we will create your personalized Forgiveness Map, so you have the power to decide exactly who, what, and when to release yourself from that past pain.
Then I'll teach you my 28 Day Pain Release Practice that you can use to free yourself from the clutches of your past hurt, and exit the Grudge Loop for good.
Result: You'll have total control of when and how to release the pain of the past, and the power to remember without anger, heartache or regret. You can forgive on your time and on your terms, without pretending what happened was OK or waiting for an apology, all while you take back any power your Ex still has over your life.
The third problem we'll solve is wanting to find yourself again. You have to face the fact that you lost your "me" back when you became "us".
And when "us" dissolved, it felt like you did, too.
But here's what I love so much about Break Free From Divorce HeartbreakTM and using a clear and simple framework to understand who you really are, who you want to be, and get the confidence to go from "the bitter Ex" to "the One who got away"...
...it takes you from lost, angry, sad, and scared to feeling like yourself again: lovable, loving, and confident.
It's hard to start over when you either a) don't know who to be now that you can't be Mrs. Whats-his-name anymore, or b) are trying to be who other people think you should be.
To fix this...
First up, you take our research-backed energy assessment, so you can find out exactly where your mental and emotional energy gets hijacked when you're triggered.
Next, we'll work together using your results plus our step-by-step Fearless Dreaming process to upgrade your identity so you can stop having to do things just because everyone else thinks you should be doing them and start to choose your own adventure.
Finally, we will sit down to create a clear strategy and roadmap to build a life that's aligned and amazing (one so good that your Ex will be kicking themselves for letting you slip through their fingers).
Result: You know exactly how to reconnect to your true self. Knowing who you are and being yourself feels natural in any situation. Heck, being "the real you" might become so effortless that you overhear your friends saying, "it's so good to have her back!".
The end result is that you will finally have the foundation for the life you envisioned when you decided to get divorced: a simple strategy to break free from the Grudge Loop, build unshakeable self trust, and step into the future in a way that feels completely aligned with who you are.
Wouldn't it feel good to finally break free from heartbreak and create the life you deserve?
As part of this group of founding members, I'll be working with you over the next 6 weeks to turn your divorce heartbreak into a success story... so I'll want to make sure you have the support to implement everything you learn right away.
I'm ready to get started right away... and I'm inviting you to join the founders' group.
Here's how everything will work...
Once you join, you'll get access to the Break Free From Divorce HeartbreakTM Learning Portal straight away. This is the resource library where you will be able to start learning the strategies we'll be working through.
You will get immediate access to training materials to get started and go at your own pace.
After an orientation kick off call, we'll meet on live calls 1x a week for 6 weeks. No question is off limits.
You'll have access to the program materials for as long as Break Free From Divorce HeartbreakTM is offered. No time limit. Once you're in, you're in.
There's also a Break Free From Divorce HeartbreakTM online community that you'll become a founding member of. This is where you can get your questions answered between the calls.
I really want to create some inspiring success stories... so I'll be spending lots of one-on-one time with you during the coaching calls to make sure we get to the root of what's keeping you in the Grudge Loop as fast as possible.
The more you jump in, the more traction we'll get together. So I want to be sure you have 2-3 hours/week to dedicate this over the next few weeks.
TO THANK YOU FOR BEING A MEMBER: I'm including some special bonuses...just for you.
Weekly Bonus 1-1 Coaching Sessions with me personally
My "How to Hire a Divorce Lawyer" course to know how to find, hire, and manage an expert without overspending or feeling out of control
My secret to create "instant calm" anywhere
P.S. Any time you invest time and money to work with a coach, there's a risk. What if it doesn't work? What if it's not as good as she said?
So let's look at the best and worst case scenarios...
Over the next 6 weeks, you break free from the heartbreak of your divorce. We make this the last holiday that you have to white-knuckle it through family dinner.
I'm Angie Hooper, and I teach practical action steps to break free from the hurt and pain of divorce without waiting for an apology, or pretending what happened was OK. I want this to be the last morning you wake up still thinking about "it" and second-guessing your life so you can move forward with confidence and self-trust.
I'm distilling forgiveness to it's essential steps to make reclaiming your peace a gentle and accessible process. And always with your permission and by your choice. I'm going to walk with you through understanding what forgiveness is, bust the myths, and build your path out of pain. Then show you the fastest path to step into your new life knowing exactly who you are, full of confidence and self-trust.
That's the best case.
But what about the worst case?
Maybe it doesn't work... Maybe you show up after the first call, and you decide it's not for you.
Or you think the content's not quite right, or maybe you jumped in too soon after the breakup, or you decide that you don't like the way I talk...
All I ask is that we get on the phone for a 15-minute 1-1 coaching call before I send your refund. That way, I can support you making the best decision for your future, and you can be confident it's not your Inner Critic trying to sabotage you again.
In which case, anytime before the second week's coaching call, just let me know, and I'll refund you 100% of what you've paid. No questions asked.
You get to keep all the materials we've covered. And all of the bonuses. You'll be one step closer to freedom... but you won't have to pay for it at all. And, I'll even throw in an extra $7, so you can treat yourself to a Venti mocha on me.
Worst case you get a free 15-min coaching session and a fancy coffee on me.
So that way there's no risk to give it a go and get started.
So, where do you think we should go from here?
If you'd like to break free once and for all from the heartbreak of your divorce, click the button to book a free call, and let's talk ASAP.